How to Design Your Own Low Buy Challenge
Why I'm buying less this year, and how to create a challenge that's personal to you.
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On my way home from the city last week, I drove by a thrift store I used to frequent. It’s a short walk from our former office, and it’s massive. A decade ago, I’d often spend lunch breaks there, looking through the racks and racks of clothing, buying up old sheets to sew with, and hunting for decent baskets and picture frames.
I thought I’d stop in and have a look. Thrift stores seem to activate a primal hunting instinct in me that’s hard to ignore. That dopamine kicks in and I’ve got to stop and just have a quick look.
Surprisingly, there seemed to be just as many good finds as I remember from the old days. Within ten minutes, my arms were piled with candy colored striped oxford shirts, a cashmere sweater, and a pink silk blouse, all things I knew I’d wear.
I knew I’d wear them because I already own them. My closet is stuffed with clothing just like this. I thought about the way I’d have to cram these new things in, about how I was almost out of hangers (again), and about how many similar things I already own.
Slowly, I put all this stuff back. And the overwhelming image of all this stuff made me think, perhaps it’s time to commit to buying less and having less.
My First Low Buy Experiment
I first did a challenge like this over 15 years ago, before I’d heard of the term “low buy.”
The challenge was issued by a popular blog at the time, whose name I’ve unfortunately forgotten. The idea was to buy no new clothing for a period of your choosing. You could sign up for 3 months, or 6 months, or a year. Secondhand was fine, and exceptions could be made for basics like socks and underwear. I signed on for 3 months, but ended up enjoying the experience so much that I continued it for a year.
Now, I’ve always love clothes. At the time, I had a good job in a professional field and I’d become accustomed to buying new clothes when I felt like it. Shopping had become something of a pasttime for me. It wasn’t necessarily a problem, but once I stopped, I realized just how much space and energy it took up, and how easy it actually was to stop thinking about it.
I began to get more creative with what I had, to seek out secondhand alternatives, and to sew things myself when I really fell in love with something. It permanently changed the way I thought about my wardrobe, and about what “enough” really means to me, especially when it comes to objects of beauty I bring into my home.
A Low Buy Challenge for January
For the first experiment in my 2024 Slowdown, I’m setting myself up with a new Low Buy challenge. The goal is to question how much I really need, and to spend less time mindlessly browsing, shopping, or thinking about shopping.
You are welcome to join me, and to customize it to your own needs.
Here’s how I designed it for myself:
Pick the categories you want to temper. I feel that I have too much in the way of clothing, skincare, and haircare. Some other categories you might include could be craft supplies, books, makeup, housewares, whatever you want to play with.
Choose your boundaries and exceptions. For example, I’ll allow myself to buy socks and underwear if I need them, and I can replace toiletries that are actually used up completely. Set your own rules, so that it feels useful and managable.
Decide whether to allow secondhand. Personally, I’d like to pare down what I acquire, so I’m going to disallow secondhand clothing at first, just so I don’t substitute one for the other. But I’ll likely let it back in after a while.
Pick a timeframe. I’m starting with just one month (super easy!), but I’m hoping I’ll enjoy it enough to just keep going. I really like this low-pressure approach.
For me, this is not about deprivation or saving money or even self improvement. It’s just playing around with the idea of “more” and how the pursuit of it affects me. Physical stuff is just the first field of play.
How about you?
Have you ever done a low buy challenge? Does it seem like it would be helpful? Let me know if you’ll be joining me this month (and hopefully beyond) in our first endeavor to slow our brains down a bit in 2024.
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I had to do some serious purging when we packed all our household goods to go into storage before selling our house and traveling the US in an RV for a year. It really opened my eyes to how much STUFF was crammed in various hidey-holes throughout the house. And living in an RV for a year showed how little we really need. So for the past few years I've been a lot more mindful about what I purchase - we don't deny ourselves but think really hard about something that's just a want rather than a need. But I still have a problem with craft projects - I love the planning and sourcing supplies. And sometimes I even start the project - but there are at least a half dozen strewn about our spare room in various states of not-done-yet. So I'm going to spend January working on existing projects buying only supplies essential to finish. Thanks for the challenge!
Hi Sarai. Love this. I have spent the last year releasing things that no longer serve me. I have been using a Buy Nothing group on FB and love seeing things go to others I know will love and use them. I have also acquired a few things for my garden in this manner. I am joining your challenge with a focus on…food. Yup. Food. I am still buying for at least 3! Even though my daughter is living on the other side of the country and her father and I have divorced. The pandemic didn’t help as we all went into hoarder mode and I’ve been unable to change my way of thinking. 3-5lb bags of bread flour in the pantry now along with - oh my goodness don’t even want to say. My challenge is to eat from the pantry and the freezer, buy only fresh veg and fruit - enough for a few days so it’s truly fresh - and work my way thru all this food. Thanks for all your great inspiration.